Thursday, July 25, 2013

D-E-S-I-R-E

Its been a Month and I am still Not sure that "Whether I got the answer to this so called word DESIRE" ?
But in the process of finding a single act of Humans without a Desire all I got was quite healthy amount of things which human do for desire, Here is what I got :-
Ishani a good friend of mine, Quite a philosopher type and a believer of gods Existence visits to a nearby temple on weekly basis.
Every time she passes from the corner of the Temple,
she finds a beggar who has lost his legs, how he lost it is even a mystery to her so do with me.
So as per her schedule of visiting temple last week I joined her.While returning she put a coin in the "bank of chiller box "of that beggar and recited her gods name and we proceeded for home, in the midway I asked
her why she recited her gods name while giving that money to him,
She replied in a philosophical way as she always does , what she explained was :-
" See Ashish we do a lot of things knowingly or unknowingly which should not be done.We make
a lot of mistakes, many wrong acts so in order to compensate them I help someone who is in need.
I visit temple so that" Mere Paap Adjust ho Jaye"
and I was like "even a visit to temple have a hidden desire of human being".
 Helping other is just a desire to compensate your act.
I then left that place and the weekend was invested in searching for a Single ACT which is
 "Desire-less".
and the result was a Big FAILURE ! so I slept with this unsolved mystery in my mind.
Well that was over, now its a "Working Day " Monday, with the pressure of work I entered the office to see those Lethargic faces all around as if they were forced to wake up and have to show there presence here! .
I moved to my Desk and to my shock I received a Mornings Greeting from a colleague who has never shown up in past two years !
"#that awkward moment is what all I tweeted" .
I knew he is here just for a reason and here it was" he wanted me to teach him how to reboot a Blackberry device" again a desirous act.
I approached almost a dozen people, but I am still unsatisfied with the replies I got and is still searching for it!
Lets end this from the beginning :-
I was Born with a Desire to Live
When I was 2, I use to wait for dad with a desire that he will take me with him for a ride,
When I turned 4, I use to wait for Guests so that I can have Chocolates .
Turning to teen attracted me to so many new Attractions of world and now every act of mine was increasing my Desire ! And is still growing with Time !
So the end is the beginning of many endless thought and with this I pen down to write again, maybe
with a solution this time. Do share your views ! it might help me solve this Complex Bundle of Queries.
   

Saturday, July 13, 2013

Emotional Attyachar : Ek Jhatke ka Pyaar !


Tere jane ke baad zindagi toh hai ,
magar jindagi se koi aas nahi .
tujhe bhulne ki chahat toh hai ,
magar ab chahat ki  woh pyaas nahi !



I don't know whether those words make sense or not, but the theme which goes
behind those words are what most of the people are fighting to overcome!!
              Emotions !!!
Well sometime its good to be emotional, but carrying the emotions which 
leads to nowhere will only make your journey harder!

"Manjil ko pana koi badi baat nahi, bas bandhan ka moh aur 
pyaar ki maya ko tyaagna hoga,"

The only Gap between a Successful Person and an average person is the 
Emotion which should have been buried in the past but is still travelling with him.
I find a lot of people who are the victim of so Called "Emotional Attyachar "
I don't say its easy to MOVE ON with your past, but sometime somethings are better left behind.
One of my friend says she can't overcome her past !
I Just Asked her " Did you stop Breathing after what happened ?
Were you able to control your Hunger !?
Did the Time Stopped? 
And the answer was NO, I am still breathing, I do feel hungry and Time goes on but?.
I said if it is so, then you can't cry over a same thing again and again !
bcoz life is too short to Regret things which are gone.
They are gone just because they don't belong to your Present, So don't spoil your future!
U can not carry those Emotions with you.
May be at times you feel guilty of your past deeds, but remember at that time it was 
the best solution you thought about. 
It was your decision and  never regret your Decisions.
The only person you can trust in this whole world is you yourself
So always Respect your Decisions and believe that you choose the best option available to you.
Drop your Guilt and see how free you'll feel,
" Emotions are the best Enemy one can have or the best Friend to Relay upon"
Time has the power to heal every wound !
Just Connect the Dots of your past With Positive Ends and 
life will be wonderful !