Saturday, September 17, 2016

The word of mouth

 We often heard in life that “The pen is mightier than the sword”. Yes, this is true but we never wonder about the authenticity of the
work written by the pen. That’s simply because we were never taught to question the same.

Today I just had this argument with myself after watching the movie Baar baar Dekho. What’s said by the critics and people around me
gave me an impression about that movie was that it’s not worth anyone’s time to devote in such kind of movie and I was following the
same rule taught to me “Not to question the authenticity”, unless and until one old friend of mine suggested that I should watch the
movie and decide by myself instead of blindly following the word of mouth. Still I was not convinced because it’s easy to be with the majority
then to take a stand. There are so many simple things in life we choose to ignore, so many rituals blindly followed that we didn’t even have the
courage to question that!
Why is that? Why are we the way we are?
Maybe because that’s what is taught to us. The simple rules of life, to become somebody we are not. To achieve the targets and move forward and
we never question the authenticity.

To begin with, it was important to tell you the thoughts that passed my mind when I saw the movie. My perceptive of the movie might not be the
best but somewhere deep down this movie had so much little things to teach and that should at least pass through your mind also, even if you
don’t agree or follow them in life. From day one of your life you are taught to chase your dreams, excel in exam or your parents will cancel your
outing for weekend. Learn sports or your classmates will not be your friends. Growing in all these surroundings your mind starts to become like
the one around you. The only thing that matters to you is success and after spending first 20-25 years of yours in this surrounding what you came
out with is a emotionless person whose only goal is to get 6 digit pay scale with five days of working and the so called luxuries of life which you are
mistaken to think can give you satisfaction. Life is not about the past or future, life is this moment of yours. Don’t waste it thinking about creating
a better future, because if you are doing that then you are already spoiling your future. Having a million dollar at the age of 45 and having no one
at your side who actually cares for you might not seem a wrong option at this time but at the end of the life what matters is those people.

What I will suggest you people is to do watch this movie and try to learn the things those are there to learn, not all the movies are there
to entertain you but when you get one such you should take advantage of it and do share what you think about the same .

  Baar baar toh nai but still ek baar to dekho for the message it has to give .

Sunday, July 17, 2016

Fir hogi barsaat par tum na hogi.

Kya hogi woh raat jab tum na hogi . .
Fir hogi barsaat par tum na hogi. .
Hogi yadoon se mulakaat , sath tum na hogi ,
Fir hogi barsaat par tum na hogi.
Kyu hoti hai mulakaat bichad jane ke liye ,
Kal fir hogi subha , par woh suruwaat na hogi.
Fir hoga apne mohhabat ka jikr , par uss jikr meh woh baat na hogi.
Laut aayengi yaadon ki baraat , 
Par uss baraat meh tum na hogi.
Hoti hai mohhabaat sath nibhane ko , 
Mohhabat toh fir hogi mere pass par tum na hogi . 
Beet jate hai sukh ke lamhe hawaao ki tarah , 
Fir hogi poonam ki raat par tum na hogi.

Saturday, December 19, 2015

The imaginary struggling.

Every single event happening in front of us is a opportunity to learn something from it , but how often we pay attention to it . I assume none!  Or very rarely few out of millions and billions .
Why is this negligence , why people don't want to learn from others mistake and  don't feel blessed to have what they have and to laugh at the moment .
They attempt to create a wall of sadness or wishes of what they want instead of making a scenery of what they have . I know its quite real and happens with every single individual but the question is why not apply some effort to change the way we see the world .
Lets start with a small incidence happened with mohan , one of my friend who was more into i want to live like others and why cant i get what he has .
Now mohan was traveling to Delhi from kolkata . His train was about to arrive at kolkata station for boarding. The environment of railway station has a lot to teach if we care too. There was a lot of rush and people were running for life , while mohan was sitting on a bench thinking about all his failures and attempts of not clearing IAS exam and how is just disappointed with his inabilities to deal with it . It was making him weak and his performance was degrading while he was helping his father in his business , unknowingly that he has the capability and even if he didn't make it out in IAS or IBPS he is still a bright and sharp minded guy. In between of all these thoughts he came back to senses hearing that the train is expected to arrive at platform no 1 shortly .
People started adjusting and getting prepare to board the train and soon a guy with mental inability was resisting to board the train and was moving away from the platform while his parents were constantly making effort to stop him . The train arrived during this scene and the parents somehow managed to board him to the train .
Mohan on the other side watched this incidence because these kind of activities attract the human mind and we tend  find out whats wrong .After boarding the train mohan started to analize the situation and started relating that to him .
Mohan started thinking -"i am  healthy and have a perfectly balanced mind . I don't have any physical inability . Still i have become a prisoner of my mind and let the failure affect my present . "
That was the day he started treating himself with respect and started counting what he have instead of what he don't.
In the same way if we see our-self and compare it with the people who are not even have the capability or resources  to earn their bread then how blessed we are !
Learn the art of appreciating what you have and world will be a happy place to live . Don't let the failure create the imaginary walls of struggle which is actually not there . Learn to be the master of your mind or else when the mind takes the charge it destroys ones inner self .

Saturday, November 28, 2015

The Era of Smart TV & Phones and dumb People .

It was not the first tie when I was ditched by the network  while I was looking for way to reach the office and the wise old man around me helped with the route to get me there without even giving a little stress over it. The same thing happened to me when I was travelling and wanted to know the list of stations where the train is going to stop but again this sweet innocent love of my life was out of network so I the ray of hope was old couple sitting next to me .These small incidences force me to think about how Technology has overtaken the power of our brain. I still remember when i was a high school kid and Mobile Phone was the newly invented craze and at that time I use to remember all the contact numbers of my near and dear once so that I can call them and gradually when this device was developed further with better storage and all the contacts was saved in the phone now i hardly remember any contact numbers. The exercise or the work which we use to do with our brain has taken the setback by depending on the technology. I would also like to take the chance to mention the Era of Dumb People with smart TV.
Television sets are something which was made to provide visual and audio information and some entertainment so that we can feel refreshed but gradually we are being addictive to it .Now a days we can't effort to meet our dear ones at the cost of missing our favorites serial episode. We can spend the whole 24 hours of our weekends sitting in front of that Idiot Box which earlier people used to discover the surrounding or going to a get together with family and friends .Technology has made us their slaves and slowly we are becoming the victim of it. We may not realize but it is affecting us in every aspect of life .
The things what are changing are:-
Earlier we use to make more use of our brains and use to make it exercise by remembering small details but now even the birthday of cousin has to be reminded by the pop up of the facebook notification.
There was a time when there use to be a long conversation after dinner about how the day was , how every member of the family is doing but now even the dinner table witness silence and people busy with their so called smart phones or having the dinner private in their room with their eyes into the TV screen as Dumb viewer.

You might be thinking that I am against the Technology by this time after reading my views about it but that's not true, What I need to convey is that Technology is your slave to make your work easier rather than making your their slave and make you dumb. Everything or anything which is used only when required helps us to develop but getting over addicted to it detach us from the world at large , from the environment around us , from the gifted nature we have to enjoy and relax. Earlier people use to enjoy their holidays by just sitting beside their loved once in the silence of nature or exploring the area but now the concentration is more about the selfies and recording instead of seeing what  we have gone to see. It has become so irritated behavior of  human being that someday you'll realize after seeing the picture that you were so busy taking memories that you forget to create memory. the places you visit will be the unknown destination with some proof that you have been there.
Don't make it too late to realize that a group photo with people around you is better than a lonely selfie ,because gradually the environment around us is replacing the people around us with the technology and it will only make a Sick world instead of a better one.